#46 We Have Had The Time of Our Lives

Change is good right?

Because I don't know really, at first it feels good. But after a while, it doesn't feel good anymore. So is change bad then. What if you are the one who has controlled the change. The one who has decided that there has to be change, knowing that the change is not good. That the change will not have a positive impact on your life, but you still had to choose that change, because it was the right thing do to. What if you later decide that you want to go back in time, and reverse the change. Go back to normal, or at least what you thought of as normal before. What if you just want to go back and change everything, do everything differently, because you can't deal with the change anymore. I'm on the verger of a breaking point, because I don't know what to do. Do I want the change, or not. I've had a lot of change in the past year, and I don't know if I can stand more change. I know that the change could maybe be the right thing, but I don't really know. Is it. I'm more scared of me regretting the change that I choose. And I could never go back in time again, it would be done, and you couldn't turn back and decide that you don't want that to happen. What if that happens? Will I be able to live with myself after that anymore. I don't think so. Will I ever be able to go back to who I was before the change. Because this will impact my life so much, I don't know is it good or is it bad. I'm not sure about any of it. I wish I was, because it would make me life 100 times easier, if I could fast forward in time, and see if the change is good, or is the change bad. Because then I could actually choose, then I would know, and I would know that I would not have to live in regret ever again. I've gone through similar situations before, but those times it hasn't been my choice, my decision to change something that should not be changed. Those times it has been easier, there hasn't been any regret, because it hasn't been my choice. I've had no power over those changes, I've had no control over them, I've just over time had to learn to accept the change, and live with it. 

#45 Why Do I Miss Everything?

I Don't Own The Music

Why do I end up missing everything that I thought that I would never feel like missing anymore. There is nothing that I would change in where I am now, but I still somehow miss all the things I used to have before. I miss all the fun I used to have with all my friends. All the stupid things we did when no one was watching. I just miss everything, all the things I thought that I would never miss again I miss. I just wish that I could go back to where I was before. 

My life was full then, I had everything I was living a dream, but not anymore. Till two days ago I thought that my life was full and I had everything that I need, but it's not true. I'm missing so much. I really just wish that I could go back to where I was before. I miss all the competing, I miss the everyday training, being able to be alone going to the stables, and just being with him. The one that I care about, but now all of that is gone. I don't have anything anymore. I just have him, but it doesn't feel like he is mine, because he is so far away. I miss show jumping, I miss it more than anything, I just wish I could go back. I can't do what I love anymore, and I feel like quitting. I just don't want to do this anymore. I don't want to share my horse with everyone, because he's mine. I'm fine with sharing him with my mother, but others I don't want to share him with. I want to be with him everyday, and if I can't why do I even do this. There is no point in doing something I love, if I don't care about it anymore. Especially, when everyone else is having fun training with their friends and I'm stuck at a small stable alone, not being able to do the things that I love. It's not fair. I just want to quit, my horse is sick I need to listen to people tell me that I should buy a new horse, but what if I don't want to, because it will never be the same. I just hate all of this. I've had enough of people lecturing me how my horse should be put down and that I should buy an new horse. I don't want a new horse, I just want to quit. I've had enough this is driving me insane. I want to put him down and quit for good, never come back again. I see no point in anything anymore. I just don't want to do this without him, I want to keep him, but according to other people it's time to put him down, so why don't I just do that and then give up. I see no point in trying again, because I know that I will fail again, as a person, and as a rider, and I don't know what to do with that anymore. I'll just listen to other people talking shit about me. I don't want to do any of this anymore. I just quit. There's no point in continuing, especially if I'm no good at what I do. I see no point in wasting my life with this, because I will never get anywhere. All of this was just a phase in my life, and it disappeared like everyone told me at one point, it will go away so there is no point in trying to build your whole life around it, because you will no be doing this for the rest of your life. 

I quit!

#44 Sorry For The Long Wait

I Don't Own The Music

Viime postauksesta on kolme kuukautta. En edes tiedä mihin kaikki tämä aika on hävinnyt. Tuntuu siltä että koulu olisi vasta alkanut. Lokakuu meni hujauksessa. Hihs tuli ja meni, minun syntymäpäivä tuli ja meni. Kavereiten syntymäpäivät myös, sekä kaikki muut koulu hommat ja hevonen. Ainiin ja 10 päivän syysloma. Ja uusi kamera ja putki, koska vanha yritti sanoa itseään irti kolmen vuoden jälkeen.

Tänne minun puolelleni kuuluu hyvää Lare on todella hyvä nykyään ratsataa ja hoitaa, siinä ei ole mitään ongelmia, kaikki toimii todella hyvin vaikkakin joudutiin siirtymään pellolta kentälle. Ollaan silti mahduttu todella hyvin. Unohdinko mainita että ensi lumi satoi tänään etelä suomeen, ei kyllä ollut yhtään ikävä.

(c) Inka

Koulusta ei edes tarvitse keskustella, sillä siellä ei tapahdu mitään koska en tee mitään, ja kun olis 55 minuutin ruoka tunti jolloin normaalit ihmiset syö, minä istun lattialla mietimässä mitä oikeasti teen elämälläni tai pelaan puhelimella. Siinä olisi oiva aika postauksien kirjoitamiseen tai kouluun panostamiseen, muttei vaan mitenkään enää jaksa. Hihsistä tulee oma postaus sillä olin expossa kolmena päivänä töissä ja yhtenä päivänä minulla oli ihan liput ja menin katsomaan näytöksiä. Pitää vain saada kuvat käytyä läpi ja editoitua. Sama on alku syyslomasta jolloin olin perheeni kanssa Dubaissa, josta on jossain vaiheessa marraskuuta toivottavasti tulossa oma postaus ihanien kesäisien kuvien kera. Ja nyt pitää iskeä naama takaisin oppikirjoihin jotta pysyy jotenkin vielä opinnot hallinassa.

(c) Inka

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